David sat at a stop light. The woman in front of him was going through papers on the seat of her car, and when the light changed to green she didn't go. A green light is not a suggestion, you know, it is more of a commandment. But she didn't notice.
When the light turned red again, she still had not moved. David in the car behind her now started screaming epithets and beating on his steering wheel.
A policeman tapped on David' windshield. 'You can't arrest me for hollering in my car,' David said. The cop asked for his license and registration, returned to his car, talked on the radio for a while, and finally handed the papers back. David protested, 'I knew you couldn't cite me for yelling in my own car!'
The officer replied, 'I didn't want to cite you for shouting in your car. But I was directly behind you at the light. I saw you screaming and beating your steering wheel, and I said to myself, 'That man is out of control. He's going to hurt someone!'
'Then I noticed the cross hanging from your rear view mirror, the bright yellow 'Love Is a Choice' license tag, the 'Give Peace a Chance' and 'Prayer Changes Things' bumper stickers, and I was sure you must have stolen the car.'
David's behaviour did not reflect his bumper stickers. But let's not be too critical. Are we always the people we want to be?
We make changes by stretching. Personal transformation can happen when the person we presently are does not yet resemble the person we hope to be. But isn't it better to set high ideals and occasionally fall short, than to settle for mediocrity and succeed?
The important question does not end with 'Who are you today?, but 'Who will you be tomorrow?'
If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.
Shanti Gowans is the globally recognised author and founder of Shanti Yoga™, Meditation and Ayurveda for the self, family and community.
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